I came across this post a few days back and it really put me into a deep thought (though mostly find lost in my thoughts). This sparked a thought of unusual feelings within me. It said to show your love to your friends by kissing them & hugging them, building the bond of touch to communicate with people around you that you care, to break the societal barriers in the mind. I just loved it, honestly anything which asks change is something which excites me a lot.
I am what is called a touch averse person the one who doesn't like to touch people or people touching me. But there are some people when they hold my hand or give me that bear hug I feel happy for the day. And they are friends & family, my closest people on this earth. After reading this post, I actually re-emphasize that love needs to be expressed, not only to your so called "love" but also your friends. Hold their hands, hug them, kiss their faces make them feel you care for them. Laugh, cry, support and be proud to show your feelings because it is not a sign of weakness, embracing platonic relationships will give you some really good friends and some trusted allies throughout your life.
The society which teaches us not to show our emotions needs to learn that emotions are not a sign of weakness but the sign of strength and support from our loved ones & for our loved ones. Well said by someone "Together we stand, divided we fall" and the society actually plays the cards of divide & rule, they are capable to instill a fear in the minds of people like you and me that we can make or break your life, and we enter the vicious circle.
Show your love to your platonic friends and family & let others just go f*** themselves because next time you are in trouble it is the people who care turn up and not the ones who would just be there to give gyan. So break the so called rules live & love, let your emotions show the good in you.
I am what is called a touch averse person the one who doesn't like to touch people or people touching me. But there are some people when they hold my hand or give me that bear hug I feel happy for the day. And they are friends & family, my closest people on this earth. After reading this post, I actually re-emphasize that love needs to be expressed, not only to your so called "love" but also your friends. Hold their hands, hug them, kiss their faces make them feel you care for them. Laugh, cry, support and be proud to show your feelings because it is not a sign of weakness, embracing platonic relationships will give you some really good friends and some trusted allies throughout your life.
The society which teaches us not to show our emotions needs to learn that emotions are not a sign of weakness but the sign of strength and support from our loved ones & for our loved ones. Well said by someone "Together we stand, divided we fall" and the society actually plays the cards of divide & rule, they are capable to instill a fear in the minds of people like you and me that we can make or break your life, and we enter the vicious circle.
Show your love to your platonic friends and family & let others just go f*** themselves because next time you are in trouble it is the people who care turn up and not the ones who would just be there to give gyan. So break the so called rules live & love, let your emotions show the good in you.
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