The One Thing...

It's been a very long time I write anything and from a few days was feeling a need to pen things down. It is said that when you have anything on your mind you should write it down it eases you. Well here I go, if I just don't make any sense you can just ignore. 😘
I don't know how many of you know that I am divorced and felt really uncomfortable talking about it some time back. Now with things being long past it's much easier for me. I don't want to bore you with the details of my unsuccessful marriage or painful divorce, this is something beyond that. A recent series of event which has led me to write this piece. As a normal human being I started top look for a life partner some time back after the fiasco. Well trust me it is the most difficult thing to do. As the biological ticks you come across the most weird people across. Some think they are obliging you by trying to marry you and some others think you are not worth them. The others you come across are there one I want you talk about.
I still am very much single to start with and the reason is I'm writing today. Hope soon I write another one. 🤞I spoke to numerous guys in a span of a year. I have really kept an open mind this time while choosing the prospects. Over 50 men I spoke to they always said one thing which brings an end to the days of my prospective relationship. A well educated doctor told my parents she doesn't need to work with my income she can do something at my clinic. Then another one asked my mother if it is ok that he likes to listen to music in the morning, I don't know whether he was thinking that my mom runs my life or he was planning to settle with my Mom, FYI my mom is happily married. There was one gentleman who refused to talk to me over whatsapp because he thought that I should have the time to speak to him over phone by the way the guy was in US with a 10.5 hrs of time difference, so only time I should talk to him was weekends. Did he think that the marriage was also going to work like that. Then one could not decide which city he wanted to settle really u expect to pack your bags every 6 months and move to a new city, good lord I'm really not young to do that. I know men don't like to shop a lot but is it very difficult to expect that your man likes to travel. And the list goes on and on, it seems never ending as of now. I know men also feel the same, there's always just one thing which changes your perspective and you know your life will be just another compromise which you cannot forgive yourself for if you oversight this one, and you can't think straight any more near that
I just wish all of you find the one who doesn't give you that one reason to let him or her go.