Filling up the Grid!

Well you must be just thinking which grid I'm talking about right... the grid which defines me or you or anybody for that matter. Now, this might sound super confusing. I feel our life is like a matrix or a grid which has different aspects which makes us. Some people might have a matrix of 5X5 others might have 10X10, all these small portions of life makes us.

There are lot of people I come in contact in my day to day life, and believe me most of them are different from each other. Now, that is obvious you would say because you don't have a choice of the people who you come in contact with. But there are a few people you connect to and trust me if you introspect you will see they all are not the same kind of people. If I seriously put them in one room for a day some might just kill the other and some would just ask me how are you friends with the other. I was confused for sometime myself, but then I realized I have some part of me which is like the person in my life, so when all of them are there they fill up my grid. 

I feel all of us must have felt this at one point or the other, and with my little experiences in life I feel it is good to be versatile. Meeting different people helps you fill up the grid and in turn helps you complete yourself. It helps you hone your skills, eliminates or rather say help you work on your weaknesses. You also know who will be the right person to be with at the right time, like in a time of a crisis you will figure out who can pull you out of it easily. Conscious efforts of understanding the people around you will not only help you understand them better but it will help you look within yourself and work on yourself.

A person you love (might be your parents, friends, lover or just anybody) is not always perfect, neither are you to them. Instead of looking for perfection you should look for one's strengths and working towards their weaknesses. It took me a long time to understand and helped me look at people around differently and gave me more peace in life. It brings in a lot of positive energy from within.

Note: I have not yet attained salvation in life and don't plan anything like that in near future.